Saturday, November 19, 2011

My bf doesn't want to meet my friends or tell our parents bout us.he's 13 years older than me.is that the prob

my boyfriend is 13 years older than me. we are about two years in a relationship but he still doesn't want to tell our parents about us..he doesn't want to go with me to my friends either or even when my friend gets married i have to go alone!!? what should i do?? he's after a divorce about 5 years ago so mabye he needs more time..??? does our relationship make sens??

My bf doesn't want to meet my friends or tell our parents bout us.he's 13 years older than me.is that the prob
He isn't committed to the relationship. Maybe it's time to ask him where he sees this going.
Reply:Well, it depends! Are you at least 18? Since, people are going to freak out if a guy who is an adult is dating a teenager stll!
Reply:i wouldnt do it cuz idk if ur parents r cool wid dating ppl 13 years older
Reply:I don't think the age is the problem in all this! If it's been two years since you've been dating, you should really come out and ask what's going on. Age difference by a lot isn't bad, but in this case, perhaps ask why he's not going to places with you or why he doesn't want to tell your parents about it. If he still doesn't want to, it's fine. Wait until he's ready.





Best of luck!
Reply:A relationship that is secret always doesn't work out! Either he is doing "other" things or he doesn't care about you.





Stop it already. Don't be blinded by your love.
Reply:If it has already been 2 years and he still wants to hide your relationship... there is a huge problem. I wouldn't stay in a relationship like that, because it isn't fair to you.








What are your ages?
Reply:Are you sure he isn't still married? He is hiding something and it isn't the age difference (unless you are 14).
Reply:if he was really interested in you then he wouldn't have a problem with it. My husband is 9 years older than me but that's never been a problem. You've just let him get away with it for so long. What kind of relationship is it ,if you have to hide? You did nothing wrong, unless of course, you are underage.


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