What if she makes time to meet her friends but is too busy to make time for us?

I have friends too, and I do enjoy the time off, but you would think that after not seeing each other for a month she would want to see me instead of her friends. I waited around for a couple of days to see if she would write but she didnt. I finally caved in and wrote to her and she replied with she may be busy that weekend. The annoying part is that I have said "forget her", and dont talk to her for over a month and then she finally comes over and gives me this convoluted excuse why she didnt get in touch. She then invites me to dinner, a party, a night out, a bunch of stuff for like a month, but then the whole cycle starts over. Is this a lost cause?

What if she makes time to meet her friends but is too busy to make time for us?
Ditch her ... you're not important enough to her right now ... she just wants you to be there for comfort
Reply:Put her in the round file and go find yourself a good woman. She's a user with no respect for the feelings of others.
Reply:She seems to not care enough about how you feel or share the same feelings you have.There is little you can do if that is the case.I would suggest that you Don't be so availaible to her..She knows she can pull you off the shelf when she wants to, and that is making it easy for her.It sounds like your a part time love to her..Someone she knows she can have when she wants..and why would she give that up.If I were you, I would start finding myself someone who wants to be your number one, you deserve better...T
Reply:One last call. Tell her that you are tired of the games she is playing. Tell her that you would appreciate it if she never bothered you again. She is using you to fill the empty spaces.