I want to to talk and meet friends on the internet?

I broke up with my husband around 8 months ago and met someone else very quickly! 4 weeks ago I discovered that he was married and I am devastated! He is more difficult to get over than may husband was. Why is that?

I want to to talk and meet friends on the internet?
life sucks, i know all about it had my heart stomped on so many times think i might just stay single.





hope you mend your heart soon.





kby
Reply:Well I don't know why your marriage ended, but this new guy has betrayed you, and that might be worse than what caused your marriage to end.





I wouldn't think the Internet is a good social venue either, I've just read a quote "The internet, where men are men, women are also men, and children are FBI agents" It's a place where we get release from ourselves, and I doubt you can really know people on the internet. Everyone is not who they seem.
Reply:Probably because you were just getting over a divorce you weren't thinking about the warning signs of someone being married. So don't beat yourself up over it, I'm not sure how long you were married for, but being out of the dating game for a while didn't help the situation.


I had something similar happen a few years ago. My bf and I broke up and like 2 weeks later I met this other guy. I figured out he was married pretty quick though. His house was decorated waaay tooo nice for a bachelour (yes he had the nerve to take me to his house!). What makes it worse though, is that his wife was my supervisor, where I had just started working!! (My life is a soap opera, I swear!) I think you are having more trouble getting over your "boyfriend" being married because you and your husband's marraige was probably a slow decline, where as this guy was your "dream man" one day; and a complete bastard the next. (Even though he was always a complete bastard! You just didn't know it yet.) Plus it hurts to find out your whole relationship is a lie!!!


What helped me get over being so hurt, was calling up all my friends and telling them what happened. Venting really works. We had a pajama party and all got really drunk and bitched about guys! Lots of Fun! Your never to old for a pajama party. :) But don't waste to much time thinking about that loser. Some people are just messed up, and there really are good guys out there.... they're just hard to find!
Reply:Listen Kathy. You got hurt, and it was worse. Simply because,


you followed this illusion. That the next guy you meet, will


fix all of your problems. And it did not work out at all. As well as


him reminding you of the past..... Just give yourself some time.


Please. You will be OK. Send me a message, if you have


any questions. Good Luck.
Reply:It's basically to great big let downs in person relationships in quick order. It's common to feel the way you do. You are not a failure at relationships. Just keep trying to find your soul mate.





i'm always amenable to making new friends. you can email me if you like at: michael_trussell@yahoo.com
Reply:its becouse you love him and he is married.


am thinking that you still not over your husband.
Reply:I think you just need to forget about all this and try be selfish for a while I mean focus on your other things and wait for the right time.





Good Luck!
Reply:youve been through a lot ,i dont know any sights to log on to but you can e mail me if you like...take care and remember every cloud has asilver lining as daft as that may seem now but i really believe things happen for a reason ..
Reply:Im sorry i dont know the answer to this question- we all deal with situations in different ways.





You can chat to me if you like by email or i messenger- just click on my avatar!





Take care!
Reply:It is because he was an shoulder to lean on, he gave you comfort from a guy when you had none. He probably was tellin you things you wanted to hear. By you just breaking up with your husband, you was vurnable to him. So cheer up there are many people out there.
Reply:Honey i know its hard. I am married to a wonderful man- but he just doesn't communicate with me! Anyway, i met this wonderful man on the internet and he told me he loved me ( i feel like that too). Last time we spoke he told me he loved me again and now i have a bad feeling something has happened to him. I can't get him outta my head. If you ever wanna chat to someone, email me!