How does a great guy meet/date a girl when both their friends ruin the meet, even though they like each other?

women say im very confident and often ask me if im single. I am and im not interested in being a player. but it doesnt matter how confident or genuine i am, either her friend will do stuff to pull the girl away even though she has already admitted shes into me, or my freinds says so many useless things or acts odd - he bore her friend and so the friend pulls the other girl away! The uk dating scene is very hard and even though i meet women during the day and in pubs/clubs its so hardcore id have to give up my day job to be successful. Ive got my own life and i dont need a woman, but iwant a quality one... i realsie i may have to date a few before i find someone right for me. Im an attractive guy with a great life and a good job, but it seems almost impossible to make a connection in pubs/clubs over here. and if youve just met someone, the girl is often going to have to pick her friends over you, cause she just met you and has known them for ages.any ideas on how to be more successful?

How does a great guy meet/date a girl when both their friends ruin the meet, even though they like each other?
I think you need to widen your social circle and do things where you will meet quality women.


Go do other things that you are interested in, activities which you know women participate in. If your friend or friends are boring the women around them, go without them. You will have more opportunites to meet women in, say, salsa, art or language classes when you are on your own.


As for the pub/club thing, if the woman you like is pulled away by her friend, walk after her and say to her that she seems like a nice person and you would like to get to know her a little better over a coffee or something and then exchange numbers with her. You have to 'close the deal' even though there seem to be obstacles like her friends and your friends.


Also, get yourself out to more parties. Ask the people you know what's going on in your area. Join groups whose interests you share. Just get out there and socialise. Do different things every week. You will at least have experiences which connect you to wider and wider amounts of people, which will give you more opportunites to meet the quality woman you are seeking.


The more women you meet in places where there isn't the competition of alcohol, noise and friends who are pulling them away, the more likely it is that you will meet someone who will stay and talk long enough for you to do the number exchange in a relaxed way. Good luck.
Reply:Go out on your own, then your friend cant stuff it up for you.





Get a better looking friend that will keep the girls friend interested while you work you magic.





Alot of uk girls are stuck up and after money, well the ones in the south are. I'm a southerner but find that northern lass's are so much friendly and not as stuck up or gold digging.





A quality girl is hard to find, comprise is the only way but never let one walk all over you I learnt my lesson and wont make that mistake again.





Women like confidence and a bit of arrogance.





Good luck
Reply:Your are taking it too seriously. You should be going out and meeting people and having a good time. When the right kind of person comes along don't take it too heavy, be yourself and suggesting meeting up again sometime. Girls will often hide behind their friends as a means of getting away from something they are not really into, wait for some one who is perpared to make a stand to meet you again. The harder you try the more difficult it is. Relax and the girls will come rolling in!
Reply:MAY be you consder friendship first. It is through friendship that a friend becomes a lover. Its through frienddhip that you get to know each other. Its thru frinedship that, you get to understand and to respects wach other at all levels. LAstly its frienship that creates the bond. So why worry? Meet as many lovely ones as you can be friends and give your self the best bondfree time for as long as it is destined to last.





In good time, nature will reveal your better half. Good luck. I am single anyway.
Reply:quit going with your friends...or you can get her number and call her back in private

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