IF you're girl doesn't want to meet you're friends?

my last girl friend we were so cool together but around my friends she just freaks out...doesn't want to know them or meet them, etc..always wondered why is that...when we were alone and around her friends everything was cool...but around mine....and it's not like that theyre winos or drug users....any thoughts about it....TI'S A GIRL THING???

IF you're girl doesn't want to meet you're friends?
No, she must not like your friends. Can't say that we are all like that though because I love hangin' with the boys. Maybe it's an attention thing. When your with the guys you probably don't pay her as much attention as you normally would. I don't have a clue!
Reply:She just doesn't like your loser buds. Don't worry though. You will either lose your friends or she will not be that serious.
Reply:Well it's kind of a girl thing. We are pretty shy when were around your guy friends. We just don't know what exactly to do. Like talk to them, leave, or just stand there and act stupid. But sooner or later she will get used to it. Just give her a while and she will cool down. Hope i helped!
Reply:shes probably afraid of what they'll think of her..im always a little nervous when meeting one of my boyfriends friends because i want to make a good impression so they dont think im a giant ***** and complain about me or anything, because if a guys friends nag and nag about what a drag their friends girl is, they might just dump her (at least an uncool guy would) also i know it sounds a little vain, but i was always worried his friends might think im not pretty and then that would reflect on my boyfriends taste. like if all his friends have super pretty girlfriends and then theres just me...yeah...its DEFINETLY a girl thing! :] haha
Reply:Can't catagorize and call that a "Girl thing" because its extremely unusual. Selfishness, wants you all to herself, wants to do only what she wants n doesn't care about you or your friends. If you care about someone, wouldn't you want to know their likes and dislikes, where they are when your not around (encompasses meeting the friends)???
Reply:i think she's trying 2 feel ur friends out. give her time she may open up as the relationship goes on.
Reply:maybe she just wants to be with you.








by the way, did you hanged out with her friends?


if not, that might be the reason of her not being cool.
Reply:i think that shes scared that they might not like her and as a result them telling you and you breaking up with her just becuase of that


it could also be that she is shy and might take a while to open up to people after she gets to know them and knows that they like her for her and not just becuase they have to put up with her becuase of you


just give it time for her to warm up to them or come right out and ask her why shes seems so shy around them





hope i helped and good luck!! :)
Reply:She slept wit one of them and doesn't want to run into him.
Reply:I'm female and I don't know the answer for that.I'm currently talking to someone and I wouldn't mind meeting his friends.If his friends are haters,smokers,or stay in trouble i might want nothing to do it them.
Reply:I think it's a shy thing. She must be shy to approach and say hi to other guys.
Reply:hmmmm sounds more like a guy thing to me. maybe she had a bad experience with an ex-boyfriend's friend. She may just want to give you your space w/ your friends. Who knows.
Reply:might be signs of the future...
Reply:I think it's a shy thing.
Reply:totally not a "girl thing," not all of us do that. try finding out why. just remember that friends come first. bros before hoes.
Reply:Maybe she knows some of your friend better than you think she may!... She just might know them in other ways then you think, and now that she's with you she just doesn't fill right being around those she does know, so just could be a cuple of them... I would ask my friends if they may know my girl anyway from a passtime or what ever... You never know! Don't want to be a dick but girls get around alot more thnen we think. GOOD LUCK!!!
Reply:umm not really. she may have just not felt comfortable around ur friends, they may not have been exactley the type of people she would hang wit. sum people r just like dat. but its not a girl thing
Reply:She sounds like someone who didn't want to share you with anyone else.
Reply:Maybe she was worried about what you friends would think of her. I don't know if it's a girl thing, but I happen to be the same way. lol





But eventually, I suck it up and hang out with my bf's friends... I end up liking it. ^_^.





Just... she doesn't want to embarass or look stupid in front of your friends. She's YOUR girl. She doesn't want to make YOU look stupid....
Reply:Maybe she's worried about how your friends will react to her. When she "freaks out," she's doing it on purpose. If your friends don't like her, at least she can tell herself that she wasn't being herself. Give her some time and drop some hints to her that your friends like her. That will make her feel a little more comfortable with getting to know them.
Reply:go back to being friends with her. relationships take up too much time.
Reply:I agree with you that sounds weird, and she kinda sounds stuck up! But maybe she was just 2 shy and out of her somfort zone with your friends, or didnt think she's be accepted, but im always siked 2 hang out with my bf friends, i mean there soooooo fun!
Reply:Yes it is a girl thing. If she feels unsure of herself or is afraid to be around a lot of guys at one time, that's normal. As long as she isn't afraid to bring you around your friends you don't have to worry about if she likes you or not. You could also try introducing her to one friend at a time. When she gets used to him try another. Love is patient.