Thursday, August 19, 2010

Why doesn't my girlfriend ever want me to meet her guy friends?

We have been dating nearly two yearse and new guys always come up. Every time she never wants to set up a time where we all can hang out... Just her and them hang out.. Which then I get nervous and suspicious. She says that I have no trust in her, but I do. It's the guy I don't have trust in and I have said this before. I've also told her no guy just wants to be friends with a girl. Especially if they just meet them (No guy makes effort to talk to a girl they're not attracted to), she doesnt beleive me..... Yet when I ask for us all to hang out she never wants to... or even offers and is like hey let's invite whoever a long... So i have no chance to build trust with this person. But me, I try to invite her along with my and my friends of the opposite sex..





So really I just don't get why she never asks the guy to hang otu with me and her? Isn't it the respectful thing to make sure i can trust the guy?

Why doesn't my girlfriend ever want me to meet her guy friends?
I have many guy friends whom I know do not like me. A person can get sick of their spouse if they don't have someone they can get away and hang out with. If you trust her, trust her to make the right choice if her guy friend tries to make a move on her. If you think he's a threat that she can't handle you should be close enough to tell her.





I hope this helps %26lt;3
Reply:she just doesn't want anyone to be jealous or something...


don't take it personally its just a thing girls do
Reply:OK the answers you have received so far are BS! She doesn't want you to meet them because she is hiding something. She is keeping these other fools on reserve for the day she kicks you to the curb. She may not be doing anything right now but I guarantee there is a lot of flirting going on which she does not want you to see. Think about it, if there was nothing to hide and she knows you trust her then why all the secrecy, especially when you have given her different opportunities to make it happen. To your point, NO GUY WANTS TO BE FRIENDS WITH A GIRL, ESPECIALLY A FUN, OUTGOING AND SOCIAL ONE. Go with your gut, you are right. Lastly, the excuse of not inviting you because you may get jealous is an insult. I would get jealous too is she is doing what I am certain she is doing, lining up her replacement boyfriends.


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