Hello im 21, after high school i figured the people i hung around with the most would be my friends for life. Little did i know 3 years later the 3 i hung around with would end up having kids? My best friend since middle school hes 20 had a kid at 18 right out of high school; i don’t get to see him much anymore. The next one is also 20 just had a kid 8 weeks ago prob not gona see him any more, and finally (i find this a lil ok) hes 25 had a kid a year ago i don’t see him much anymore either. i don’t know if there is anyone else out there like me who lost there 3 best friends in any sort of way but it sucks. Don’t get me wrong there still my friend it’s just that i don’t get to see them anymore and its hurts. How do you cope with this or make new friends that you can trust like them, i have a g/f but guys need guy friends too.
How/Where to meet new friends?? its kinda long but if you care to read i would like that.?
okay well. They are the same people, they just have kidsss. kids are goood, and its a part of life. You should have like a double/triple date (im guessing theyre married?) you could just set it up at someone's house. kids dont matter, they are the same people as before. just ignore the kids, and most likely the mom takes care of the kids so if they interupt, in comes mommy...
ok if you want to make new friends...
find a sport/activity that you just love, and you'll meet tons of people. it definetly helps to make friends if you have a common interest.
I MADE THE BIGGEST MISTAKE OF MY LIFE when i stopped keeping in touch with my friends. I ditched them for more popular ones, and i hated myself for it. it sucks. dude i lost like my 7 best friends. and they were amazing. seriously, your situation isnt a problem because your still young!! if your in college, join clubs, ask people to study with you. DO STUFF OUTSIDE OF SCHOOL TOO. maybe you could ask them if they can like study w/u and then for a break go to the movies/get something to eat.
dude, guys are so much easier to befriend because they aren't so bitchy.
dont try too hard!!!!
anyone can tell if you try too hard.
always stay happy,
smile,
be yourself,
%26amp;%26amp; be positive
:) hope i could help!! good luck.
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