Meet My girls Male Friends?

Am I wrong for not wanting to meet my girlfriend’s male friend she known since Junior high (Were both 23)? She wants me to. I have been with my girlfriend for over a year. We broke up for around a month in between. She had a brief relationship with a male she said was her friend in between. So, I’m not interested in meeting any of her male friends no matter who it is and how long. I’m not saying she can’t have them, but I’m not gong to act all friendly towards any of them. I was very lenient with whom she was friends with in the past but I’m not having that anymore. She has kept very short leash on me in the past so I’ve decided to do the same thing. Am I wrong? Should I Lighten up? What should I do?

Meet My girls Male Friends?
If you don't meet her friends, she may end up giving them up because it could cause problems between you. Then she'll just resent you for making her feel like that was her only option.





You don't have to be overly friendly with her male friends, but if you care about her, you should atleast give it a chance. You never know, you could be way cooler than them and not have to worry about weather or not she may like any one of them as more than a friend later on.





Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer!
Reply:She is with you now and I think you should go meet them to make her happy but always remember she's your girl, not thiers.
Reply:I say lighten up. It would be understandable if she cheated on you with one of them or she was hanging out with them all the time but you just got the green monster. You have no need to be jealous and I respect your wish on why you don't want to meet them but come on I would want my boyfriend to meet all of my friends because those are some of the factors of what makes a person who they are and you should be interested in who she hangs out with. It never hurts to try!
Reply:i personally feel the same as you and want to beat him up. but if she didnt like you then she would still be with that guy. i wouldnt meet him personally
Reply:your jeolous ovously it hard you seeing her with another guy even it her guy friend you should see her friend itwill be good for you and her youll make her happy and how do u know your ex's friend and you wont get along great give it a try it wount hurt
Reply:I think you should lighten up.


Meet the guy, that will help you know what her guy friends are like, and who knows, he just might end up being your friend too.
Reply:Yup, you're wrong.





You're thinking of this as a challenge, something to be defeated.


Look at the opportunity!





You get to meet someone who's known her for YEARS, has insights into why she is how she is based on past experiences that happened to her.





What are you worried about? She may like him better?





Fine, if she likes him better, she'll dump you anyway, why not use the situation to your advantage?





It's not a threat, it's an opportunity, use it.





You may hate him, you may not, she's not asking you to become best friends, just be polite.








Luck

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